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What is my boyfriend into? I really need some answers?

Ok let me start off by saying he is the most amazing, sweetest, nicest guy in the whole world. he treats me great and I love him a lot. But he confuses me. Its about his job. We've been together for a while and he's a used furniture dealer. That's what he tells me and my parents. But he never talks about his work and when I asked him if it would be ok if I visited him at work, he said I wouldn't like it. He has a lot of money.I mean a lot. He always has huge amounts of cash on him,he buys me all kinds of stuff all the time,and he always has new clothes and cars and stuff. I don't think that's normal for a used furniture dealer. And he has all kinds of connections. Like when we go to the movies and there's this huge line,the back door always opens and an employee lets us in. As a matter of fact, in all the local businesses that I go to with him, always treat me great. Even when Im by myself. The grocer, the gas station,all the restraunts, drugs stores, everything. They always make sure i'm served first and served the best and if I ever complain about anything, they get all freaked out and give me my money back and keep apologizing and all that. When we park our car in a no parking zone we never get towed or get a ticket. One time we were at a big party that was really loud and the cops showed up. When they came to the door my bf walked out, said hello, and they just turned around and left.One time we were late for something, and we were going like 100mph down the road and we got pulled over. The cop walked up and my bf said "I don't think we need a ticket officer" and the cop was like 'Drive safe" and we just went on our way. A lot of stuff like that happens. I just want to know whats going on. What he really does for a living. Does anyone have any ideas?

Public Comments

1. I think the connections he has are safe ones. Don't fret, just keep enjoying your life and privileges. And don't make him feel your suspicious about him. He can't hide you what is doing for ever. Love him the way he is and after he trusts you, he will tell you what he is doing for a living. You can mess things up if you try to play the role of a spy.
2. If he goes to such lengths to keep you out of it, it's probably not legal. I mean, I guess there's a chance he's the son of foreign royalty, or his dad's the governor, but that's a small chance. My first guess was drugs, but with the way the police treat him, I think it's probably more organized crime of some sort (Mafia, etc). He's someone "important". But you have to ask yourself, how much of this do you really want to know? You're happy with him, right? He's generous with you, treats you well. If you want to stay with him, poking around in his "business" might ruin what you have.